I was wondering about sending an email to my b-i-l and s-i-l, (H brother)to tell them H has filed on me. I want to tell them I will always think of them and consider them family. I want them to know this and hope they will feel the same towards me.
Personally I would not mention the D to the inlaws. If the R between you and the in-laws was close, then I think it is okay to reach out and let them know that you were thinking of them.
As much as you want your in-laws to snap some sense into him - it will not work.
NC is for YOU in most cases. It is not to be used as a punishment for your H's bad behavior. If YOU feel that you can manage to see him and YOU want to stay home...well them stay home.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
