FMV, Could you stay in a marriage where your husband said that if it weren't for your kids, he'd be gone yesterday?
Pinhead, I'm not trying to hurt you here. I don't want you to stay where you don't feel loved. I'm just sad and scared that if you leave, you'll miss out on an opportunity for you guys to find that love again. If it was there once, it can be found again even if the attraction isn't 'there' right away.
I always find it interesting that people expect attraction to come before affection. In my experience, we had to behave in affectionate ways first, in order to start feeling the attraction again. IDK, maybe we're odd. But again, that was just my experience.
So I'm sorry if I've been pestering you, I just am a little sad for you today I guess. I'll leave you alone now. Take care. FMV.
You're not pestering me! And I appreciate the support.
