Where to start!! My wife has stated that she wants her freedom and wants to be single. We've been married for 6 years and together for almost 10. We have 3 beautiful daughters. My wife has stated that she's not happy and wants a divorce. I myself want no part of a divorce and i am holding my ground.
My wife has been texting and hanging out with a guy who she says that they are just friends. This texting and hanging out together have been going on for the past couple of months and it drives me insane to know that she texts him almost non stop during the day. I've probably been doing all the wrong things in the last few weeks with begging, pleading, crying, buying flowers, etc etc. She has said that she's fallen out of love with me but yet we have been intimate a couple of times in the past week.
I have treated my wife extremely well pretty much gotten her whatever she wants whenever she wants and even sometimes gotten her things she never asked for. She says the reason she wants out is because i never treated our 3 girls the same way that i treated her. I love my girls but i will admit that I could've been a better and more loving father to them and i have done this in the last couple of months.
I finally figured out what it means to be a good loving parent and have shown my kids that. I've spent considerably more time with them and done more with them too. She has noticed this also just last nite she said to me "why does divorce make a man lose weight and change how he is with his kids". I've lost 25 pounds in the 6 weeks and she has noticed this also because she's said that I look really good!! She says that she is still attacted to me. But she seems very set on divorcing, she has been going out alot more and hanging out with this other guy. She has said that she likes her freedom and doesn't know what she wants. She seems very confused and has told people that she is confused.
Just last night we hung with our girls and went shopping and had a very good time and even played around like it was old times when we were shopping.
Please help me I don't know what to do!! I love my wife and family very much and i'm confused. I don't want to lose my family and i'm not about to give up on my marriage.
