always find it interesting that people expect attraction to come before affection. In my experience, we had to behave in affectionate ways first, in order to start feeling the attraction again. IDK, maybe we're odd. But again, that was just my experience.
What would Cary Grant (his movie persona, not the man) do? Whatever he did, he would be confident, even firtatious and charming while being no push-over.
Charming and no push-over never hurt anything, IMO.
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