I don't want to try to sway you one way or the other. If you have made up your mind, I have no business trying to change it. Hell, after all that you have been through, I can't blame you at all. I look back at my sitch and, in my present frame of mind, I should have told my W to hit the road over a year ago. I wasn't ready to then. I still waffle about it now.
What I do know is feelings change. I'm sure you know that, too. After the bomb, my W looked better to me than ever before. I wasn't paying much attention to how she was acting, just how she looked. Now, she has lost a lot of weight and SHE knows she looks good. She shaves places I always wanted her to, she wears clothes I always wanted her to. Funny thing is, I don't really find her attractive anymore. It's like she's become the fantasy version of my W that I always had somewhere in my mind, but I like the old version better. I'm sure it has nothing to do with her looks but with her actions.
Anyway, these are her feelings NOW. They can change. You know this first hand.
In the end, you must do what is best for YOU and your family. Only you know what your breaking point is. I trust you will make the correct decision. And I will back you 100%.
