Pei - thanks for the background on Happy Little Friday. It actually made me teary eyed sitting here in my office at work. I love this concept, and I guess I cry a little because I would love to do this with my husband - but never did. Not that I didn't think about it, just that I would have thought that he would think it was stupid. His idea of Happy Little Friday would be sex - NOT THAT I MINDED!!!
There are times when I think back to just a year and a half ago, he would take hold of me in the middle of the night and kiss me and whisper that he loved me. That is what I grieve for. But each day it gets easier. Each day the pain is less. The wall of strength gets sturdier everyday he is gone. I am getting to the point were I just have had enough of his "mess" of a life and I just don't want to witness it anymore.
You know I used to like rollercoasters...now I hate them! LOL!!
I will take your advice, I will have my own Happy Little Friday. Sit down and have a glass of wine - listen to some music and relax. Sounds wonderful.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
I love this concept, and I guess I cry a little because I would love to do this with my husband - but never did. Not that I didn't think about it, just that I would have thought that he would think it was stupid. His idea of Happy Little Friday would be sex - NOT THAT I MINDED!!! 
