When I made the appointment date/time to see the mediator and then called W last week to let her know (taking the lead) there was a clear mentality shift on her part. Suddenly she didn't see me going against this stuff, and she became more open
You can take this with a grain of salt if you like, but speaking only from my personal experience, if her feelings were to completely change, and she started pursuing YOU, then there would be no need to try to read into subtext, no reading of the tea leaves, and no question that things had changed seriously. She would be trying (actions) to prove your marriage is worth saving to YOU.
I would like every story here to turn out like that, but the truth is... you don't know what is going to happen until you just let go.
At least... that's how it has gone down for me.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
