Sorry, I forgot how to quote! But these are quotes from BA's post that I'm trying to reply to--
"...you absolutely deserve his full and undivided attention."
BA, that brought a huge smile to my face! Thank you.
"I don't think catching him off guard is really going to happen with an email though. You usually catch people off guard when you are face to face with them. He is away from you when he reads this email and can develop the answer he wants to give you, or that he thinks you may want to hear."
Hmmm, good point. It will be interesting is to see how much attention he even pays to the email. I just read it to myself again and it certainly doesn't take a hard line. What I may get from him - which would be pretty upsetting - is just a total blowoff of my concerns.
If Mr. A takes a "deal with it" attitude, I'm going to be sooo mad. And I won't tolerate it.
But - what am I trying to say here? - I want Mr. A to take some action one way or another. Either be willing to engage in a conversation or not. If he is willing, even if he's cheating, then my reaction will be different than if he just shuts me down.
I'm rambling here because people are coming into my office and I can't focus. Talk to y'all later.
