The only emotional tie you have to her is dislike. Unfortunately, she knows how to use it.
You have to get better about not reacting to her. Adopt a "you wish I cared" attitude.
She's got years of experience at what gets under your skin and she's not afraid to use it. So you gotta grow thicker skin, be a moving target.
I would agree that paying for half a sweatshirt is cheaper than fighting with Ls involved, but she has a tendency to push boundaries.
Whatever gets decided get it in writing.
E.g. maybe just sign something that says you will split current extracurricular expenses in half, with receipts. But that new activities must be discussed.
I would say that in theory this is no different than when you were married because couples should discuss and make financial decisions jointly, but if I recall correctly you just gave her the money. Guess it's a big adjustment for both of you.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
