Not exactly new to the site but Newcomers isn't exactly my domain.
As a WAH once, I am sorry for the torrment you guys are going through.
I don't know your full story, just your most recent posts.
So perhaps I'm offering up advice that has been given before.
If either of you is expecting love to return like turning on a light switch you'll be dissappointed.
Reconnection is a slow process built of many little things, like the way you like how she smiles at you when you do something nice, as a possible example.
You build off of the little things.
The falling in love time is over, that bonfire burned out, to rekindle it you have to be blowing on the embers that are left.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
