The funny thing is that at some point you'll be free...free from the drama and emotional roller-coaster. But it will be a more true freedom, because you tried and dont have to carry the chains of guilt and regret. These are luxuries that your STBXW may never realize.

Although dont spend a lot of time wondering if your STBXW has regrets, or gets what's coming to her.

Use this to start a new life and do the things you've always wanted. Once my D was done, I packed up and moved to the country, close to Austin. Something Ive always wanted to do.
I made new friends and reconnected with old ones. I made my life rich and I no longer wanted or need my XW.

I learned to see my marriage and my XW how they trully were and how destructive they were to my life and family.

Trust me, it's going to take time but you'll get to a better place....and it's worth the wait.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08