Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I haven't heard anything from W about meeting to "talk"

It's been two weeks now and I'm sure she is finished reading the book. If you recall, she asked me if she should finish readin the book before we talk and I said That would be a good idea.

Here's my choices:

1. Let her bring up R talk when she's ready OR
2. I ask her if she has finished reading the book?

Here's where I'm confused, If I go with option 2 is it pursuing or is it leading at this point.

Does there come a time when pursuing transitions into leading???

I will not go melty man!