That is a stage that those that have been purged never seemed to reach. It is quite different and one learns a new set of skills.
It may not seem so 'active' a forum, but those there know what the next moves are like. In fact, sometimes it gets to a point where it is hard to give advice to those in the earlier stages because one has advanced too far in one's own R. I think it is sometimes why there appears to be a dirth of success stories on the boards - a lot of posters who salvage their M's leave and actually 'live'- what a thought eh?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength