The dog has finally caught the squirrel and wonders "what do I do now?"
Have a plan.
What do you want your new marriage to be? Make it sensous - How will it feel, look, smell, taste sound and smell?
What will it take to get there (from both of you)?
What is on her list?
What needs to be said - crucial conversations?
Stay focused on the process not the outcome.
Be very aware. Triggers, bad habits, best practices to use, etc
Now that the attraction is back the focus is now on intimacy and both of you being all in.
You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
