Pinhead, take it from someone who has been there,and I have the divorce decree to prove it, moving out is the best thing you could do right now. Your W is showing lots of signs of fear of loss-just at the mention of moving out. I missed many chances in my sitch to get that kind of advantage only because of my FEAR holding me back. Your wife needs to lose you in order for her to dig deeper into herself!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final