For newbies- there is a lot of useful information in it.
...............gr8
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
feels like a new place here now....if you know what I mean.
now that the carnage is done, it time to move forward.
I'm trying to get back into the DBing mind set again.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Now is the time for you where things may be fun. You are no longer so emotionally attached that you can't "play" the DB game.
It is fun to be cool, confident and funny and see your W melt with curiosity and attraction.
So true pook.
I believe once she found out I was "dating" she started to feel she was losing me. Then she had a change of heart.
It is so much fun being this way. No stress about the outcome is so vital to the dynamics of the R.
I wish I would have gotten here sooner but I'm still good.
Time for a little playoff baseball! It's Ok to be a Phan tonight! It's another Halladay here!
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Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Reds in 4 games...Phils way too confident and cocky
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
It is so much fun being this way. No stress about the outcome is so vital to the dynamics of the R.
I wish I would have gotten here sooner but I'm still good.
Good for you, GR8! I'm glad you're at this place no matter how long it took. We all do things at our own pace. True, a lot of heartache and misery could have been avoided, but you had to learn on your own.
YOU MADE IT!!
You are in the drivers seat. Proceed with caution. You know what to do. For you, it's a win-win. You can decide to let her come back under your conditions or tell her you are fine just the way you are.
You are in the drivers seat. Proceed with caution. You know what to do. For you, it's a win-win. You can decide to let her come back under your conditions or tell her you are fine just the way you are.
Great job and good luck
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I have made it! I know I am in the drivers seat now. I'm going slow, I want to see her do some work on herself first. She has to win me back now.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
