Bottomline John. You've been advised what to do over and over and over and YOU still choose to do YOUR OWN THING.
Pin's right. She does have your balls in her purse.
What were you trying to achieve my that pity party you gave before the mediation? Why did YOU NEED to get her to say ILY. You need to figure out where this CODEPENDCY comes from BEFORE you will be able to have a REAL R/M. YOU also need to let your W go in order for HER to GROW UP. Until this happens you and more importantly YOUR SON will always be on this DRAMA ROLLERCOASTER.
Seriously.. You need to figure out where this low, self-esteem, self-confidence, insecurity comes from BEFORE you can BEGIN to fix aany of this. I see you giving advice on other members sites CONTRARY to what YOU are DOING. What adivce what you give yourself reading this??? The saying is true "you can not LOVE someone else or be loved UNTIL YOU LOVE YOURSELF..." Reading your 600+ post you clearly dont love yourself enough to let someone treat you the way she does...
I'm not trying to come off cruel. None of us would still be posting if we didnt care for a complete stranger we've never met. I am just trying to HELP FACILITATE YOUR HEALING...
