He told me this morning that he was upset with me, told me thru text. I asked why. He said when he could tell me he would. I asked if that meant he didnt know or what? He replyed "oh, I know why". I told him that I was sorry he felt that way.
I would really like to know what ive done now. NOT that it matters I guess. I could upset him simply by breathing some days.
He is upset with you because you are changing. The control he thought he had is slipping away.
Perfect example...
Originally Posted By: kissak
I am trying to do things that make me happy, and he still tries to control me. Im trying to get out of the habit of feeling bad or guilty when I dont do what he expects me to do. I went for a walk last night because I wanted to. He didnt like it, but I did it for me.
This weekend I am planning on going to a festival with the kids. I dont care if he goes or not, but Im gonna enjoy myself and my time with my children.
You are living your life and not taking ownership of HIS problems.
Please continue to remain upbeat and happy and YES, get out and do fun things for you and the kids.
Don't let his anger and blame hold you down any longer.
I hope you have a wonderful time this weekend!!!
Invite him to come along, and then go regardless of what his answer is.
Stay strong and upbeat, just because he is upset by this doesn't mean it's a bad thing.
