There you go again, saying what I'm thinking. I love my children more than I love myself sometimes. They are the reason my decision isn't cut & dry
I was....still am on the fence about this issue. I recall my W telling me the kids will be fine, their resilient, .....blah blah blah.
It hard with the kids...I feel I miss out on half their lives and well, I do. I only have them 50% if the time.
Continue to show your W you are not PLAN B. You are a PLAN A for someone. Getting your own apartment will show her you are OK with the outcome.
I feel now That since my W didn't use the kids as a reason to stay, I can't use that as a reason to reconcile. I believe it has to be for the right reasons. That's what I'm waiting and looking for.
You know the drill.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
