I know that I have learned that there is nothing you can do to make your H see what he is doing is wrong. Like Rondo said, it is easier to hide in the A than to face an ugly truth about himself.

The A is about running from responsibilities. The A is not about anything you did. He will only work toward saving the M when he is ready to be an adult and face consequences. You just keep doing positive things for YOU.

Honestly, even if your were the b*tch from he!!, the ADULT path would be to talk to you about your behavior towards him and why it was making him unhappy. To simply run away and have an A, not the adult thing to do.

H32 Me32
together:10 M:5 No kids
ILYBINILWY 7/28/10
OW found 8/15
A exposed 8/31
I Move 9/3
Dark 10/1