Many times as I noticed with my XW, thier behavior is illogical. You have to understand that much of what they do is to protect thier egos. It's very difficult for them to see themselves how they trully are knowing they are being judged. They have great trouble looking at themselves in the mirror and being honest about what they have become, so they act as if they are the spouse when in that situation.

No one, not even my on XW could beleive that she had become a liar, adulteress and criminal. Anyone who knew these secrets, including me were left behind.


Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08