I try to keep her happy in some pathetic way that makes me feel like I am helping our situation and she will see how good I am for her. I know deep down that it's really not working. I am just softening reality for her and making this too easy.
So stop softening reality for her. If you know what you are doing isn't working, do something else! Detach but remain polite. She wants out so start acting like it's already done. Do some 180s and GAL.
