No, I don't believe any further response is necessary. Dark is so much kinder to the eyes and ears. I have to schedule an appointment with my attorney a couple of weeks before our hearing. If he can get H to go off like that in court, well . . .

I do feel bad for him in that he did enjoy this time of year as well as I do. I have sent out Halloween Party invitations to all the grands, and have started decorating the garage. I'm not going to let his crisis stop me from enjoying something that all our grands look forward to. My SS Brandon will drive the 'haywagon' (actually a cart full of hay pulled by the lawn tractor.)

I'm still going to the Festivals in Northern Arkansas as usual. He is of course free to attend, but I'm not sure that's chickie poos "thang".

No, Dark is better. I wonder if it's this time of year that made him contact me in the first place? The cooler weather, the trees starting to change. Let him fester. Without lashing out at me.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011