W is acting "as if" of course I'm staying. Talking about stuff in the future. I mentioned the apartment I looked at, and she didn't say much. When she was paying some bills, she had a lot of questions about paying off our line of credit, and kept talking about "in a couple of months we'll do XYZ." Making it very easy to stay in limboland.
I'm going to look at a few more apts during my lunch break, hopefully I can find one that looks ok and won't cost an arm and a leg.
Whenever I doubt myself, I just remember what she said she'd have done if we didn't have any daughters...
