I'm afraid I didn't follow the 24-48 hour rule here, but I was truly shocked at the hostility I heard in his email. I answered as below:
"I did answer your question. I told you I preferred to stick to the original plan and meet in Waldron.
There are several ways to approach the house. I thought we might discuss them. The way you reacted earlier is the very reason I wanted to meet in a public place. As I said before, no problems, no pressures. "
To which he responded last night:
"Ok...I got it...enough is enough....I'm trying to be civil about this..what is the big deal about the house....it sells we split the profit 50/50....just like my retirement and everything else....I got all this okay.....I don't need to meet you in a public place...this can be done like this.....remember we got to keep our ducks in a row...damn the subject of our conversation changes every e-mail.....no she is not pushing this....I am....I want to just get on with my life....but if you want to dig up [censored]...better be careful who's really going to be hurt in the long run...you know what I mean and I will play...you are the one who said....if forced to you would get family and friends involved.....well I guess that gives me the same right....."
Welcome to the Twilight Zone. Again, thanks guys. I don't know what I'd do without you.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011