Perhaps we should all be working together to find solutions rather then to nit pick at one another.
I understand that it takes a long time to recover from an affair. It takes years to rebuild trust again. I get it, I still have "moments" and my Husband has been home for over 3 years. We are a work in progress
Each one of us found our way to this place because our Spouse decided to change the rules of the game and chose their happiness over their marriage.
As I posted once before, I don't have a degree in counceling or psychology. All I can offer is advice and share what worked for me and the areas I screwed up in.
I don't want to be bashed because I can't site passages from the science world and add footnotes to my posts. You can disagree with me respectably, or ignore my posts. But please don't ruin this place for other people by being rude and by trying to humiliate me.
As I tell my children each day when they leave for school, play nicely with others and treat people how you want them to treat you.
Blessings, BND
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
