"For the next 30 days, the ball is in her court."

I think that ball is in your court.

This is why...

"We have been working on things and made a little progress. "

Explain.. or define the "progress".

"Marriage problems usually involve two people, you got any faults you brought to the table but forgot to mention?"

I like answering questions...

"8000 miles of distance... I'm 99% gone."

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.