Oh, I know that Lotus!! I just meant that in general...there will be people out there who don't want to be with us, and it's ok. Because it isn't our problem, really, it is THEIR problem...I don't even know if it describes FFG.
It was just interesting to hear, because when someone rejects us, often it is not about us at all, even though it sure feels that way! It often has more to do with them than it does with us...
