I was driving in the car today flipping stations and Dr. Laura was on. She is annoying but also right sometimes. Anyway a woman called in listing the random little annoying things her husband did, why she wanted to divorce him. Then she paused and said, "I sound ridiculous, don't I?"
And Laura said, "Yes, you do. But I still think you should divorce him. Because he deserves better than you. You don't want a strong man even though you say you do, bc a strong man would not put up with your crap. You have a fantasy of the ideal man, so you find easygoing men to pick on and berate and try to mold them into the ideal, unrealistic man. With that mindset you will never be happy."