It seems that more often than not exposing or not exposing can't do very much to save the marriage. I have seen recommendations (James Dobson and others) that one-on-one confrontation is the thing to do but that too has very mixed outcomes. There were much more than 1 million divorces in the US in 1997 according to the Center for Disease Control (see http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr58/nvsr58_25.pdf). That's well over 2 divorces a minute. And its a very nasty disease isn't it? However, I wish that when matters go before the courts (divorce is invariably a lawsuit) though that infidelity is properly exposed so as not to reward the unfaithful spouse at the expense of the faithful one as is happening with simplistic "no-fault" laws. My kudos to Michelle and her team for taking on a noble cause to save a few marriages. However, it seems to me that serious education and character building of children and youth in regard to healthy relationships, marriage and family values is where the focus needs to be rather than saving a handful of miserable marriages.
