Wow, a lot sure has transpired here over the last week or so. not sure I am on board, but what can you do.
Anyway, things have really settled down for me now that we are no longer living together. There is no arguing because we just don't talk. The only time we do is when we are exchanging kids. Even then, very few words are spoken.
A couple of veteran DBers have told me they think there is still a good chance that W and I will get back together, but I just don't see it. There is no progress. Just each of us doing our own thing.
I did make a snide remark to some other couples at a soccer game last weekend when W offered to pick me up a coffee. When she asked if I wanted anything, like a cup of coffee, I just said, "No." After she left I said to the friends that I wasn't going to take anything from her. They all laughed. Dday asked me if I have a roll of duct tape. Guess I probably should just shut up.
I do have another question though. I have created a profile on Match.com and on one other site. Dday is telling me that this is a mistake that might haunt me and doom any chance at reconciliation. Others that I know and some recently on these boards have said that dating is perhaps what finally woke W out of her fog.
What do others think about setting up a profile on a site like Match? I haven't been on any dates yet, but I could see it happening. It also helps me to forget about my sitch and feel good about myself again.
