Thank you Eric, for sharing that with me. Everything you said to me, I totally agree. One thing though, is that I do believe that H has acknowledged that he has issues. But that's it at this point - he has acknowledged it - has he OWNED it? I don't think so - what he does with the acknowledgement, I know, is up to him.
He texted me this afternoon, "as if things couldn't get any worse...the landlord (for his retail store) came in today and threatened legal action if I don't get caught up with rent." He said to me..."I just can't win...I want to just hide somewhere."
I made lasagna tonight for the kids. They LOVED it. My daughter had a blast helping me. Such a good feeling