Thank you Eric, for sharing that with me. Everything you said to me, I totally agree. One thing though, is that I do believe that H has acknowledged that he has issues. But that's it at this point - he has acknowledged it - has he OWNED it? I don't think so - what he does with the acknowledgement, I know, is up to him.

He texted me this afternoon, "as if things couldn't get any worse...the landlord (for his retail store) came in today and threatened legal action if I don't get caught up with rent." He said to me..."I just can't win...I want to just hide somewhere."

I made lasagna tonight for the kids. They LOVED it. My daughter had a blast helping me. Such a good feeling smile

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Me-40 H-41
M: 10 yrs T: 12
S9/D5
ILYBINILWY - Separated: 01/06
Reconciled: 08/06
H depressed again: 02/10
Separated again: 9/17/10