Sorry, TH. this is my anniversary, and i spent 31 years getting here. Part of that accomplishment was learning to phrase things nicely and say it will a smile. I am not worried that I will never receive flowers. And though I admit I admire florists' flowers, and I often send them to others, I am usually happy with a good looking bouquet from the grocery. It's not the end of the world. There are still jewelry stores with things I like, too!