Thanks all - I definitely missed you when this site was down! Just feel like I am swimming in a world of "non-standers" - basically people who would easily recommend giving up or would be not be affected by the demise of their marriage. They are married and detached!

I watched Oprah the other day - Martha Stewart was on. She's not the one who impressed me - it was a woman who lost her husband and said that she followed Martha Stewart's crafts, etc. to honor her home. That's what I want to do - honor my family and my home. I don't want to be in a bar / I want to be having dinner with my kids and family.


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time