I know what you mean, while I can't say I've experienced it at your level but the brief connection I felt with someone not long ago (first time in 10 years) was great, pretty amazing at times- despite the fact we were two very different people.
It's hard being the one who thinks that things are good but the other person feels differently. I wonder if it's because people are searching for very specific things or wanting/expecting too much from the other as opposed to seeing them as an enhancement? They say we waste time looking for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love- I think there's some truth to that.
OMgoodness... I love that Romeo! Thank you ... I think I may post that on FB.... here is something weird..... while we dated FGG hardly commented on my FB ... since last week.... he's commented or liked more of my status then the whole time we dated. Weird.... I may have to unfriend him for awhile because I really don't like how it makes me feel when he post... it makes me want to go look at his profile page.... see if there are women posting to him and wondering about that.... it's stupid really and left over baggage from EXH....
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too