Well the prayers are helping my PMA at least - the paperwork got held up at the law offices (should have guessed that, eh?) so I have a few more days of calm before the nuclear holocaust...

That said, I'm avoiding him well. ONly conversed by email so far. Monday he was hostile/tense after our parent/teacher meeting at S's kindergarten - tried to engage me, had to drive off.

He's here with S but I'm hiding in my bedroom. Considering getting a lock on my bedroom door for when he's visiting as in the past when I've tried to get away from him and locked the bedroom door-handle lock, he's picked it and burst in!

Meanwhile, I have to continue to work on a document for the court detailing his abusive behavior - painful, but very good way to build inner strength and conviction for protection!


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship