For the next 30 days, the ball is in her court. We have been working on things and made a little progress. She told me "I see the effort you are making and it is touching" and "I was shocked by how hard you are working to save this marriage". She is working with a MC to end the affair. The MC says "I don't feel that she's ready to ask you for a divorce" and "I'm still optimistic, but I'm no psychic..."
She asked for 30 days to clear her head. I'm giving it to her. The 8000 miles of distance between us will make that easier for me, though I'm sure it will seems like years. She knows I'm 99% gone, that she has to make the next move during that time or I'm gone. The delay of game penalty is huge.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
