You're on a Divorce Busting site, so I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that you don't REALLY want a divorce.
Speaking as a Left Behind Spouse (LBS) while my wife had a Mid-Life Crisis (MLC) and fukced my friend (OM), I can tell you that this miracle you speak of does happen.
But it is not out of the blue.
It takes work, patience, empathy, understanding and your ability to forgive. Strangely on both parties part.
That ball you think is in her court? Really isn't. It is in yours. The ball and court is a game reference and while aspects of this play like a game this is far from a game.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
