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Originally Posted By: DumpedforMIL
need some puppy wisdom.

at this point, i don't even think this m is salvageable.


Although I am a cat so technically cannot possess puppy wisdom, I do share his insights.

I believe Puppy would say that as you are young, there are no children, and you hold the above quoted opinion...move on. A or B - whatever. Move on with your life.


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Puppy is dead! Long live Puppy!

Why did this place ban one of it's wisest?

I never read anything offensive the guy said.

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My guess?

Complaints.

There is a large codependent contingent (Hey, that rhymes! grin ) here.

There are angry and bitter folks too, but I don't suspect them.


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Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
My guess?

Complaints.

There is a large codependent contingent (Hey, that rhymes! grin ) here.

There are angry and bitter folks too, but I don't suspect them.



Truth hurts.

But isn't one of the biggest reasons we are here, to get a 2x4 slap over the head?

Arguments over philosophy can be very civil.

No?


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Mind reading and pot stirring.

If Puppy got banned, Puppy brought that down on himself in the post(s) that got deleted.



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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Mind reading and pot stirring.

If Puppy got banned, Puppy brought that down on himself in the post(s) that got deleted.




Is it just me, or is there a new civilian militia here?

Please explain your comment.


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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Mind reading and pot stirring.

If Puppy got banned, Puppy brought that down on himself in the post(s) that got deleted.

And I believe he'd own it if so. But I believe if we did the math, he helped more than not, and his intention was always Golden.

Loss.
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pookie...
Just so you know, JTB has been on the other side of this fence. One might not throw stones without knowing the whole story.

I believe Puppy helped more than he hurt, though I didn't always agree with him. On the other hand, he knew from the time that he became Puppy that there was a line that couldn't be crossed. It may be true that the line wasn't always clear, and it may well be that the moderators could, or should, have stepped in before things got to this point. But, they didn't.

As Greek said, Puppy would own it, he knew it could happen one day. Probably even surprised it took this long!

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I agree about Puppy, hell guys I fully suggest that instead of bitching about it you guys send emails to mods. Can find it on the Contact Us tab.

And I have.

I am saying if I break the Terms of Agreement, I know why I got banned, and I expect too.

You seem to think that 'poof' he is gone for no good reason...and that is not the case.

The idea of saying someone complained about Puppy? Puppy? Seriously he did nothing but tout DB ideals. There is no ammo to back that claim up.

Puppy's good FAR outweighs the potential bad, but an exception to the rule means there are no rules.

I personally want him back, just like you guys do.

So write the damned emails.



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Mr. Jack.

I see that you dove here from the infidelity forum and jumped right into defending the decision to ban Puppy.

You also jumped into my thread without stopping around elsewhere.

I am a funny guy and you comment on my post was well received by me.

But I feel strange all of a sudden.





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