Hey Gyn... Just speaking from the the girlfriend comment I made...
My wife literally did not care about me sleeping with other women... It was when I found a girl I LIKED and started to develop the beginnings of an actual RELATIONSHIP with her is when my wife flipped out.
Big difference there.
And yeah, I know its hard to walk away and think "the door is closed"...
But really dude, the door is never "closed" as long as you are both alive, and especially if you have kids together.
Know what I mean?
I got to the point with my wife where I was so angry and hurt... I honestly thought there was no way in h3ll I could even speak to her again.
But, that faded over time.
It wouldn't have faded, however, if I did not get as much emotional distance between her and I as I could.
