thanks everyone. i think i always knew that plan A was more than generous. usually the person who wants out would leave the lbs with a bit more to compensate for the hurt they've caused. but my h wanted the whole cake and leave me destitute. so he came up with plan B. he thought plan B would be to his advantage. but in reality, it would have left him with less. he's that stupid. it's no wonder i managed the household.
he screwed up every step of the way. from dropping the d-bomb, to selling our home, to the separation agreement. if i didn't step in to fix each and every one of these mistakes, we would be broke. i guess i'm tired of fixing the problems he's created. every time he creates a problem, i'm the one to blame for it. he needs to learn what living without me saving his sorry a$$ is like.
sorry to dump this on you. i've agonized over it for days. i had this post for pdt last week and just as i wanted to hit 'submit', the board went down.
