I completely agree......and timing can be everything. We can't always control how timing will effect it either. In my case timing, and exposure worked luckily in my favour. But I didn't 'plan' exposure or the timing....it happened through the the red mist that took over me once certain facts came to my attention. I was lucky that the chips fell the way they did.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength