You are definitely right that he needs to do it for himself.
If he is doing it because his family and you are important to him, that's fine because he is doing it because of his values. But doing it just because he knows you want him to it not. A small distinction, but I think knowing that he is the one making the choice is very important.
That is a very sweet thing for him to say!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
