It is so much fun being this way. No stress about the outcome is so vital to the dynamics of the R.
I wish I would have gotten here sooner but I'm still good.
Good for you, GR8! I'm glad you're at this place no matter how long it took. We all do things at our own pace. True, a lot of heartache and misery could have been avoided, but you had to learn on your own.
YOU MADE IT!!
You are in the drivers seat. Proceed with caution. You know what to do. For you, it's a win-win. You can decide to let her come back under your conditions or tell her you are fine just the way you are.
