Pinhead, you sound very down. Your girls know you love them. You deserve more respect from your "other half". maybe she does need you to move away so she can see who you are and want you back as a man.
My sister's husband ( a man's man, no relationship nonsense, wall-to-wall sports on the TV and no tears please )in Eire sent me this rather enigmatic and very masculine message recently. It made me laugh, the sentiment is spot on:
"Chin up, chest out, drive on".

Chin up, etc...
NCU


Me: 46
H:42
Together for 18 yrs, married 14.
3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7.
Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation.
Separated 08/2010