Australia

[MichelleLT]

I totally feel you on the insecurity thing. There is nothing so big a blow to your self esteem as being left for another person.

I am glad you've been having fun, but I think you know what needs to happen. You called him a fling, and that's what it is. And it sounds to me like it's coming to an end.

Get tested. Take care of yourself. And move on.

Sorry about XH too. At least he had the "decency" to e-mail you. You deserve so so so so much more.

Don't ever settle for less than what you deserve sweetie. None of us are perfect, but we all deserve someone who knows they are a work in progress too.