Yeah, no more MC. I don't know if it even helped me understand things that much. I liked the counselor, and he's really good with opening people up so they can talk to each other, but he can't make a silk purse out of a sows ear.
PH.. You ARE on the right track with that attitude.... Those are things you can also say to your wife... They show the spouse that you really are backed off and really have given up trying.. (Those who try the hardest are the most likely to fail)( per James Dobson)