The bottom line always falls back to the basics of human nature...
We want what we can't have and we don't appreciate things we have as much because we tire of them.
Relationships work the best when the love is given out of complete freedom. It has to be a complete choice. That is when it works the best...
This is why PH has to let her go and tell her he can't be with a woman who isn't attracted to him. Human nature will kick in on her and she MAY not want to lose something valuable to her. He has never let her realize that he TOO has a choice in this. And his choice is to now tell her that he only wants to be with someone who is attracted to him. It isn't her. He now puts her in the postion to change her tune when and if she panics. This will give him negotiation power to get things back on track. He needs to allow her to go through a crisis for the time being though. A long one and not a one or two week crisis. She nees to HURT like others do on here. It is usually through crisis that we are most motivated to change. He needs to put her through that crisis and motivation. Only a strong man can understand and allow this to happen. It will reward the strong man in the end... This is where confidence comes into play.
This is where confidence comes into play.