Originally Posted By: pinhead
I think that you have to maintain a certain amount of tension in a relationship between both parties so you don't become complacent. This doesn't have to be based on fear of losing the other person, but fear of stagnating. Also, developing real intomesee is important to keeping the tension healthy. You have to make the other person curious!


!!!!!!!! This !!!!!!!

W and I came to the exact conclusion last night and it answered so many questions.

Last edited by NotFromThesePart; 10/06/10 08:01 PM.
M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011