You can't force it, fake it or will it into existence.
You most certainly CAN fake it. Matter of fact, the sooner the BS learns to fake some things that are keeping the WS away, the sooner reconciliation can happen..
Don't fall for the lies that one can't fake how they feel or how they act. It is imperative to fake things in these situations. The quicker you can fake things the better your chances of reconciliation. Not much different than a football or basketball player faking out his opponent to get the advantage in the competition. You don't tell your opponent your every move. Sometimes a great fake gets you a score and wins the game.